Guide for Groomsmen
AL Weddings
Just like the bridesmaids, groomsmen are in charge of purchasing and tailoring their wedding attire. Whether you’ve decided to rent or buy your suit or tux, it’s important to start the process early so you have everything in hand well in advance.
Everyone loves a good party and even though planning the bachelor party is, traditionally, a best man duty, that doesn’t mean the other groomsmen can’t lend a hand. If you all work together, it’ll be a night or weekend you’ll never forget. If you don’t help planning, it’s nice to chip in funds to the festivities.
Unless something major comes up, groomsmen are supposed to be in attendance for any pre-wedding activities, excluding the bridal shower. While one of those events may sound way more fun than the others, it’s good to show your support for the couple from the engagement all the way to them saying, “I do”.
With a life outside the upcoming nuptials, getting the couple a wedding gift may slip your mind—but it's customary for members of the wedding party, including the groomsmen, to give a present to the couple. If you’re not sure what to get them, check out their registry and find something that they can use together.
You’ll also need to book hotel and travel accommodations on your own.This is especially important for destination weddings. You’ll want to be at the destination with plenty of time to participate in any and all wedding weekend activities. Many people will consider waiting to book cheaper flights, but if you’re shut out, you’ll be in a bind and the couple will be incredibly stressed at your potentially late arrival. Avoid all that added stress and make plans as soon as you can.
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